Thursday, September 20, 2012

Thoughts from Elements of life.

It is indeed true to some extent as well.
You finally find a man you are interested in that also appears interested in you and the chase is on. You start calling him, emailing or texting him. You make yourself readily available to him in hopes he will notice and be more interested in you. You're a strong independent woman who knows exactly what she wants and you intend to get it. 

But then he doesn't respond the way you want him to. Insecurity starts setting in and you start doubting yourself. I thought he was interested in me? So now you are frustrated and you begin to feel angry. You stop calling, texting, and emailing him. You decide you're not going to be readily available to him at his beck and call. So what happens next? He starts calling you, texting you, emailing you and shows even more of an interest in you. The cycle repeats over and over and starts to feel like a game. The longer it continues, the more frustrated and confused you are. You start to believe, indeed it must be t
rue, men love bitches. Sound familiar?

In every other aspect of your life, persistence usually does pay off. In the mind of a woman you think this strategy makes perfect sense to apply in relationships as well. Here's the problem. MEN DO NOT THINK LIKE WOMEN. You know the innate nurturer that lives in you? Men have an innate hunter that lives inside of them. They are wired and programmed to be the hunters and the pursuers. In order to feel like a strong powerful man, they need to be the one to pursue you. At the end of the hunt, YOU are the prize. How challenging is it if they never get to compete and someone gave them the prize in advance of the competition?

Here's the subconscious message they really get when you chase them: She's manipulative, she's needy, she's insecure, she's clingy, and she is emasculating me. When you backed off and allowed him to pursue you, the subconscious message he received was: she's confident, she's secure, she's independent, and she's a prize worth pursuing.

Women work too hard chasing men. Truly our job is simple. Relax, be confident and open, be your authentic self, and allow him to crave and pursue his prize. If a man really wants you, he will stop at nothing to get you. ~Brenda

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Shristi Shrestha In Miss World

The 62nd Miss World was  being held in The People's Republic of China.And it was indeed a lot of hard efforts of China to make it a huge success and they did it.But this time for we all Nepalese this Miss World was the most awaited Miss World ever.This time Shristi Shrestha had come up with much anticipations of winning the blue crown home for the first time.
Yes,Shristi Shrestha being born in Chitwan had shifted to London in her teens with her family.With successes of modeling and fashion in both Nepal and foreign,she had so much professionalism though she is a Bsc,Nursing student and a future nurse by profession.Miss Nepal was her dream by childhood from the time she was in Chitwan by this year  2012 her dream had been transformed into a realization that she can achieve it.She then came for Miss Nepal, participated in it and indeed won it.Though every success stories hold a lot of question marks as per do they really were not a part of conspiracies but I believe that was just a pay off for her dedication, hard work and needless effort.Having known her up close and personal during my participation at Miss Nepal 2012.She was so much friendly .The line that I feel wud b appropriate to describe her wud b "फलेको बृछ को हागा न नुहेको कहा छ र".Cause having achieved so much at such a tender age every time we were close to her she never let us feel the sense of superiority that she indeed possessed.
It was also an additional attachment with her as we were the roommates for the close camp.She was such a  lovely human being I wud love to say that I love and respect her.Not only this I get to learn a lot of lessons from her as well be it the tips to be perfectionist. from makeup ,hairdos styling to a lot more.
OK,This all were the part of Miss Nepal diary.
Lets go to Miss World.Shristi having the height far more then the average Nepali would eventually stand tall and high 6.9 ft.With the experiences in all her modeling assignments she knew everything be it from body posture,walks moves to photo shoots.She had it all.And being selected in the Top 10 in beach wear made us so sure that she will do it.Her performance in the stage at the event was indeed tremendously superb.Looking really charming in a yellow dress by Sakil.She made us really proud by coming to Top 30.Though her each and every performance was better than ever but the only  fact that made us lag behind is all due to the protocal of Nepal.For them the country so instable don't hold to b the country of Miss World.So,untill and unless we come up with a prosperous Nepal no bestest gal can ever win the title.Lets pray  that the day come soon.For now,We are always proud of Shristi and I proud to be the batch of her Miss Nepal,i.e.Miss Nepal 2012.Wish u all the best for your future.And Congrats to the 62nd Miss World Miss China.Lets c who wins in Indonesia??


Sunday, July 22, 2012

To,all the FMCG producers.
Since we been consuming FMCG for quite a long period of time by now.So,we have this common sense to mark what tastes good and what looks good.It is a sad yet real thing that our Nepali products are not able to  generate or mark a quality product.That is our product's has not stepped in that remarkable stage where we can say, this is quality.But the sad story lies here when we have taste getting degraded then that of past years.Why is it like this?Though we may find it really hard to improvise the product's quality due to certain constraints but why we always fail in terms of maintaining earlier levels of quality.This was the thing I have noticed lots of time.Recently I was disheartened to see that a maximum consumed product ,i.e. U n Me Cheese Balls has also been in the same stage.It is consumed by the little babies.It was doing good a few months earlier but in this time limit I found the taste getting degraded.The added color has been increased but they might have neglected its taste.So,it will be really nice if our FMCG producers can do something in knowing the customers' taste, preference as well to maintain the level of taste and quality...

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Forgetting happens anyway

Well, they say you should have a longer password thats what determines the strength of your passwords.But what to do if you keep some longer passwords and completely forget it at the other point.So lets be wise enough to keep similar passwords to million accounts.I am playing safer side by keeping the similar passwords.Afterall we happens to forget anyway.