It is indeed true to some extent as well.
You finally find a man you are interested in that also appears interested in you and the chase is on. You start calling him, emailing or texting him. You make yourself readily available to him in hopes he will notice and be more interested in you. You're a strong independent woman who knows exactly what she wants and you intend to get it.
But then he doesn't respond the way you want him to. Insecurity starts setting in and you start doubting yourself. I thought he was interested in me? So now you are frustrated and you begin to feel angry. You stop calling, texting, and emailing him. You decide you're not going to be readily available to him at his beck and call. So what happens next? He starts calling you, texting you, emailing you and shows even more of an interest in you. The cycle repeats over and over and starts to feel like a game. The longer it continues, the more frustrated and confused you are. You start to believe, indeed it must be t
But then he doesn't respond the way you want him to. Insecurity starts setting in and you start doubting yourself. I thought he was interested in me? So now you are frustrated and you begin to feel angry. You stop calling, texting, and emailing him. You decide you're not going to be readily available to him at his beck and call. So what happens next? He starts calling you, texting you, emailing you and shows even more of an interest in you. The cycle repeats over and over and starts to feel like a game. The longer it continues, the more frustrated and confused you are. You start to believe, indeed it must be t
rue, men love bitches. Sound familiar?
In every other aspect of your life, persistence usually does pay off. In the mind of a woman you think this strategy makes perfect sense to apply in relationships as well. Here's the problem. MEN DO NOT THINK LIKE WOMEN. You know the innate nurturer that lives in you? Men have an innate hunter that lives inside of them. They are wired and programmed to be the hunters and the pursuers. In order to feel like a strong powerful man, they need to be the one to pursue you. At the end of the hunt, YOU are the prize. How challenging is it if they never get to compete and someone gave them the prize in advance of the competition?
Here's the subconscious message they really get when you chase them: She's manipulative, she's needy, she's insecure, she's clingy, and she is emasculating me. When you backed off and allowed him to pursue you, the subconscious message he received was: she's confident, she's secure, she's independent, and she's a prize worth pursuing.
Women work too hard chasing men. Truly our job is simple. Relax, be confident and open, be your authentic self, and allow him to crave and pursue his prize. If a man really wants you, he will stop at nothing to get you. ~Brenda
In every other aspect of your life, persistence usually does pay off. In the mind of a woman you think this strategy makes perfect sense to apply in relationships as well. Here's the problem. MEN DO NOT THINK LIKE WOMEN. You know the innate nurturer that lives in you? Men have an innate hunter that lives inside of them. They are wired and programmed to be the hunters and the pursuers. In order to feel like a strong powerful man, they need to be the one to pursue you. At the end of the hunt, YOU are the prize. How challenging is it if they never get to compete and someone gave them the prize in advance of the competition?
Here's the subconscious message they really get when you chase them: She's manipulative, she's needy, she's insecure, she's clingy, and she is emasculating me. When you backed off and allowed him to pursue you, the subconscious message he received was: she's confident, she's secure, she's independent, and she's a prize worth pursuing.
Women work too hard chasing men. Truly our job is simple. Relax, be confident and open, be your authentic self, and allow him to crave and pursue his prize. If a man really wants you, he will stop at nothing to get you. ~Brenda
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